{"id":696,"date":"2010-12-19T05:48:01","date_gmt":"2010-12-19T05:48:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/2010\/12\/19\/dont-avoid-people-who-create-negative-states-in\/"},"modified":"2018-03-04T20:28:14","modified_gmt":"2018-03-04T20:28:14","slug":"dont-avoid-people-who-create-negative-states-in","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/2010\/12\/19\/dont-avoid-people-who-create-negative-states-in\/","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<blockquote><p>Don&rsquo;t avoid people who create negative states in you. We have a tendency to turn around and walk away, but they require you to reevaluate yourself [&hellip;] Sally didn&rsquo;t upset you. You upset you [&hellip;] because she doesn&rsquo;t meet your expectations. Well, tough for you! The cause for your pain is not Sally &#8211; it&rsquo;s you. Learn from your negative states.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<div class='attribution'>&ldquo;What is Essential is Invisible to the Eye&rdquo;, Leo Buscaglia<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Don&rsquo;t avoid people who create negative states in you. We have a tendency to turn around and walk away, but they require you to reevaluate yourself [&hellip;] Sally didn&rsquo;t upset you. You upset you [&hellip;] because she doesn&rsquo;t meet your expectations. Well, tough for you! The cause for your pain is not Sally &#8211; it&rsquo;s &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/2010\/12\/19\/dont-avoid-people-who-create-negative-states-in\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"quote","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-696","post","type-post","status-publish","format-quote","hentry","category-uncategorized","post_format-quote"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/696"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=696"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/696\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1271,"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/696\/revisions\/1271"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=696"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=696"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.dans.im\/scrapbook\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=696"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}